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After the Laba Festival, the flavor of the year is like the tea cooked on the stove. It becomes hotter and thicker. Merchants have intensified their discount promotions to greet people with new products; the APP link for "grabbing tickets" jumped to the top of the browser. People who have worked hard in another country for another year have put aside their gains and losses, and there is only one thing they are thinking about at the moment: grab a ticket and go home.
However, like Chaxiang, there will always be a bit of bitterness. Whenever the year is up, young travellers will always have some special anxieties. The biggest thing other than grabbing tickets is "return to the village to answer the three aunt and six aunt questions". .
I have an old friend. My daughter works outside the country, and in the words of her mother, she is "working hungry and hungry and living a life that is neither salty nor salty." The watershed of the 30-year-old's life has seen the past, and I can't see any future in the future, especially the so-called life-long events. It must be searched every holiday season. When relatives and friends meet, their ass is not flat, they ask: Is it right? "People are actually kind, but the girl doesn't appreciate it. Whoever asks about it on New Year's Day, immediately loses face with them. This year, the excuse is not to buy a ticket, and the family does not want to return.
She felt that her daughter was so ignorant, and gave me a chance to help: 30 years old, not too old. I asked her: What did the daughter think? Since it's not worth it in the field, why don't you want to come back? As soon as she heard this, she felt like she had been punched, and immediately resentment: "Who knows what she thinks? Seven questions and eight questions can't tell why, so she said that she liked the city!"
I don't understand this: Can a person live to his 30s and choose to live in a place he likes? I don't know what people think, why should they persuade others to give up their current lives? Mumbling as a mother, just be a Tang monk, come back every year and worship every year-which door is followed by relatives and friends?
Speaking of Chinese New Year, I really feel that this is the most popular and most formal social movement in the year. Regardless of whether they are willing or unwilling to be subjective, those who are juniors will inevitably go to visit relatives and friends; and some relatives have limited exchanges with each other. The annual meeting is more like a ritual, adhering and maintaining natural blood relations. Different life backgrounds, different things of concern, all kinds of innate intimacy have substantial rustiness, and can not enter the door to leave gifts, so it is hard and embarrassing to find the topic. As a result, various souls who were rejected by young people questioned, like an old family tree that was yellowed and faded. Every spring festival, they were presented like a yearly inspection and asked: Are you married? When do you want a baby? How much money do you make in a year? Why not buy a house yet? Regardless of whether the chest is pulled cold or the anger is burned, the smiley face must be opposite-even if you don't look at the monk's face and look at the Buddha's face, even if you don't care about the affection, the blood is thicker than the water, and you can't turn your face for the parents' family education.
But in fact, as a person who has been married late, I hate these good intentions from relatives and friends, not to mention some concern about the other party may not really take heart, just ask casually when there is nothing to find. So I told my old friend that since I was honored as a "middle-aged aunt", my requirement for myself is to keep the bottom line of "knowledge": I am not enthusiastic, inquisitive, or commissioned to persuade others' marital property, home purchase promotion ——— Well, what? People do not marry and have no cubs. You have to mobilize with red lips and white teeth. Would you help to raise a baby? Do n’t you have enough money to resign and go home? It ’s just to make a door to each other, and be good relatives in a harmonious and loving way, is n’t it good --- a baby with a baby, a cat with no baby to tease a dog, a cat and a dog do n’t talk about planting flowers and grass.的 Everyone's special dish ... The world is so big, why not talk about a happy and peaceful Chinese year? Why bother to ask "Heavenly" endlessly, so that people will have to save themselves in three provinces for a year.
An old friend said that I was too shy, and emphasized that relatives urged "also out of concern and kindness." But I think it's good for an outsider to ask questions about things that are annoying, embarrassing, and anxious.