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Couples should "talk"
Girlfriend complains: She rarely sits and chats with her husband, Lao Li, and occasionally talks about it. Lao Li is also "erh huh" perfunctory. Chat became her talk show, and after a long time, she was too lazy to talk.
Talking about this with Lao Li, he smiled bitterly, talked about everything, and what I said was wrong, and couldn't do anything in her heart.
Girlfriends are strong women, compared with Lao Li, who is slightly weaker. Once the girlfriends talked about work, Lao Ligang made a suggestion, and the girlfriend said "you know what" to me. Later, Lao Li learned to protect himself from silence and avoid quarrels.
Neighbor lotus seeds are disabled. After graduating from technical secondary school, her family opened a flower shop for her. Due to physical reasons, her marriage was delayed. At the age of thirty, someone introduced her to a foreign wage earner, Dayong. Dayong finished primary school only because of his poverty. After the two were married, the lotus shop loved to ask Dayong. Lianzi said that even if Dayong speaks lay words, she will nod and say "very reasonable", and then guide and say, "Is it better if I do this ..."
Later, Lianzi began to write in her spare time. The finished articles were often read to Dayong, and Dayong was also told about his experiences of working and working outside. Lianzi said that many of her articles were inspired by the story of Dayong, and sometimes published under the name of Dayong. So much so that Dayong came home from work and kept telling Lianzi what happened on the construction site today.
At the beginning, everyone was very optimistic about Lianzi's marriage, but more than two decades later, the couple talked and laughed, and lived in harmony.
Lianzi said that she knew where Dayong's language switch was, and was willing to touch the switch often, and the conversation between husband and wife was like a stream of water. Many husbands and wives are talking right and wrong each day. They do n’t want to listen to the other person ’s proud “think of the year.” They just wishfully hope that the other party will follow their own ideas and talk with themselves according to their standard answers. If unsatisfactory, they will open up each other and even quarrel mode.
Friends get along, talk about each other's topics of interest, talk about each other's pride, avoid each other's weaknesses, and naturally enjoy each other. If the same method is used between husband and wife, there is certainly no end to talk. The "cold" state in most marriages is not the disappearance of feelings, but that they are too lazy to find each other's language switch.