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Wisdom in the Cold War of Marriage
□ Ma Haixia
He and her were middle school classmates, and they went into marriage after graduation. At a class reunion, girls talked together, and the couple quarreled about who would take the initiative to talk to each other.
Some girls said that, of course, it was her husband who first bowed his head to admit his mistake, and took the initiative to reconcile him. Well, men should be more generous.
It is also said that, to see who made the mistake or who made more mistakes during the quarrel, any unjust war will end in failure, and whoever does not make sense should apologize.
She finally spoke, saying that every time she had an argument with her husband at home, it was her first initiative to talk to him.
The classmates were all surprised: how can she, a hot girl, get used to this stinky boy? Is it that after the defeat of the first battle after marriage, they are defeated in momentum and are used to taking the initiative to shake hands and make peace.
She explained that she was not afraid of him, mainly because the two signed a treaty after marriage, and one of them was: After the two quarreled, no matter who was right or wrong, if the Cold War happened, the person who spoke to the other first would be spared. Do housework for a week.
It turned out that both of them worked at the company and shared the housework after work. Whoever cooked, who washed, and who cleaned the room were clearly defined. In order to reward the party who proactively extended the olive branch during the Cold War, a specific family rule was provided to provide funding. encourage.
She does financial work, and this small abacus is still accurate. After so many years of marriage, he didn't preempt her every time after the quarrel. In his words, the responder on his mouth did not respond as fast as her.
Later, a classmate talked to him about it privately. He smiled and said that the wife he married was a rectum. Although he often caused little tempers to ignite, his anger quickly disappeared. They used to be awkward when they were in love, and he apologized every time. After reconciliation, she told him that she would regret each time she quarreled. Because of her face, she had to pretend to be angry and refused to forgive him. In fact, she had long been looking forward to reconciliation with him. Blame him for not making peace.
The longest cold war between husband and wife is the most hurtful feeling. Living under one roof, the pot and spoon will inevitably meet together, and friction will be inevitable. As long as it is not a matter of principle, quarreling is also a kind of communication between husband and wife. Special rules for quarrels are used to encourage active reconciliation. Small women will also have the minds of big husbands.